Wednesday, April 30, 2014

PST Pre-Service Training in Moldova

Four very quick hours of language class and one massive headache later we sat outside the school with the other volunteers to compare and eat what was provided to us for lunch.  I have never been a big fan of cucumbers but the flavor of these Moldovan produced cucumbers was so good that I couldn't help chomping away on two or three along with the other volunteers.


Ciorescu in the summer time is a beautiful place to learn a language and we quickly noted the similarities and differences between the Peace Corps method of teaching the language and what we had experienced with Castila in Spain the year before.  The Peace Corps focuses upon teaching volunteers “survival language” as quickly as possible and it seemed to work well for us.

Waking up in our training village of Ciorescu (pronounced “chore-es-coo”) for the first full day of PST we found that Iulia (our host mom) had made Moldovan pancakes for breakfast and a packet for our lunch consisting of sausages, bread, cucumbers and tomatoes.  After brushing our teeth and negotiating our way past the huge garden and through the chicken coop to the outhouse we were off to language class which began at eight o’clock.


We had been told that since we had learned Spanish (a little bit anyway) learning Romanian would be easier for us.  This turned out to be true and not true at the same time.  Yes, we knew what to expect and could make comparisons with the process of learning a new language but in reality, the grammar structure, pronunciation and vocabulary of Romanian is significantly different so in many ways we needed to unlearn things we had developed while learning Spanish.  In our opinion, the languages are different and each has to be approached differently.

The Peace Corps keeps its new trainees under “lockdown” status (can’t leave our training village unaccompanied) for the first three weeks for safety purposes.  Our language trainers (LTI’s) were responsible for us and lived in the village with us during the week only going home to their families for Saturday evening and Sunday (they were on call however).  We could wander the village but could not leave without being accompanied by an LTI, or a member of our host family.  Our routine quickly became four hours of language in the morning (in groups of three or four volunteers) and a bit of cultural and technical training about business in Moldova with some small projects to work on in the afternoon.


The small afternoon projects were useful because they caused us to wander around the village, familiarizing ourselves with the place and in some cases, starting to use the language.  Our host families provided everything we needed and the Peace Corps provided about 29 lei ($2.25) per day of walking around money.  This would buy a beer, a glass of wine and a package of cigarettes.  Since Marilyn and I each received 29 lei per day sometimes we would have another beer or wine……or buy something useful like toilet paper.  Some of the volunteers quickly developed the habit of meeting at the local bar for a drink at the end of the day.

One day per week we traveled on the bus, with our LTI’s to Chișinău for Administrative training.  We really learned to dislike these days as the Peace Corps staff delivered the required information in the specified manner.  On the positive side we did get to see the other volunteers that had come over with us, serving in the other programs, and that was nice.  Meanwhile, the two doctors in charge of the 100 or so volunteers in Moldova interviewed, poked, prodded and vaccinated us over and over again.  Personally, our focus was on acquiring the language which we felt was the most important thing to our future success as volunteers.

The bus between Chișinău and Ciorescu takes 45 minutes and runs several times per day.  Inevitably, with 11 volunteers and 3 LTI’s added to the regulars, the bus became extremely crowded and hot by the time it arrived at our destination.  While it is not particularly hot in Moldova in the summer (it rarely exceeds 30-32 degrees) it is very humid (regularly over 80%). 

Since bathing in a bucket (a Peace Corp norm that can’t be imagined until you try it) was difficult for us new volunteers (it never becomes easy) and washing clothes is not an everyday occurrence it becomes important to try and avoid sweating through your clothes whenever possible.  One complicating factor; many Moldovans believe that a breeze, blowing past you (called “curent”) was a one-way, non-stop ticket to sickness.  The result was that on almost every crowded, hot bus, somebody would insist that the windows be shut to cut off the “curent”.

Our cultural integration seemed to be going well and we think our experiences in Spain and Uruguay helped.  Iulia and Sasha’s grandaughter Daniela, a 17 year old who was learning English in school, came over on our first couple of nights to interpret for us which really helped, and made us feel at home.  Thanks so much Dani!  We had to learn how to take a “bucket bath” in our first day or two because the outdoor, summer shower was not yet finished (a wonderful luxury that I wished we’d had in Arizona).  The house did not have a hot water heater, if you wanted hot water for your bath you heated it in a big kettle on the stove and put it in your bucket to use.  There are no instructions for taking a bucket bath.  It is an individual thing. 

The Peace Corps joke is; “an optimist sees the glass half full, a pessimist sees it half empty and a Peace Corps volunteer thinks ‘I could take a bath in that!’” 

The family provided homemade wine, both red and white with dinner and both were incredibly delicious.  We had lucked out; our host mother was a very good cook.  Iulia and Sasha took the time to speak with us every chance they got and we appreciated their efforts.  It was important for us to learn to understand the language although we later learned that Sasha was speaking mostly Russian!  Iulia would talk to us non-stop and laugh because she knew we couldn't understand much at all and we learned to appreciate her efforts.


Sasha was 73 and retired.  He worked around the house and in the garden and distilled the local hard spirits known as “samagon” from various fruits, usually apricots.  Iulia, we came to find out, worked two jobs; in the mornings she worked in a bank in Chișinău and a couple of nights per week she had the overnight shift at the Primaria (Mayor’s office) in Ciorescu.  We are not entirely sure what all was involved with this overnight job but we knew she cleaned and worked in the gardens and also answered the 24 hour emergency number for the entire village of 7 thousand people.  We later found that Iulia was one of 6 sisters, all born and raised in Ciorescu, with 5 of them still living there, the night job at the Primaria was shared by her and two of her sisters on a rotation.

By the end of June after 4 weeks of intensive language instruction, specifically designed for Peace Corps volunteers, we could say some basic phrases and were starting to understand how the language was supposed to work grammatically.  But carrying on conversation was still a long way off.  We could understand very basic instructions when spoken slowly and clearly (Moldovans speak rapidly, with a heavy accent and throw in lots of Russian words in regular conversation) but beyond that we were still hopeless with our Romanian.  As with our Spanish, some days we felt better about our language acquisition than others.  But we both were a little more patient with ourselves than we had been with Spanish; we knew it would just take time and patience.

Towards the end of the month we all went to an Administrative session in Chisinau and they had the big REVEAL.  Oh bloody joy!  We all were together as a group with many of the already serving volunteers and they gave us each our assignment, and revealed our new home towns where we would be expected to serve for the next two years. Rounds of applause and lot's of giggling and screaming later, we were starting to wonder if we were too cynical or simply too old for this kind of thing, but we did now have our assignments which was a useful outcome.

With 4 weeks of Romanian language training, we were sent off on our own for a “site visit” to meet our new partners and spend the night with our new host family during the first weekend in July.  Our partners had sent us letters of instruction about how to navigate trains or buses and were expected to meet us when we arrived. 

Needless to say, we met this challenge with much trepidation, and plenty of anxiety, but also with the hope that we would find the community welcoming and the people as lovely as our family in Ciroescu!



Sunday, April 27, 2014

Peace Corps Staging for Moldova

Now it officially starts – we are in the PeaceCorps.  All volunteers who are headed out of the US at the same time are gathered together in one hotel to go through the final paperwork and to get some general orientation that applies to all volunteers regardless of where you serve.  It is a chance to meet other volunteers and to start the process of becoming a somewhat cohesive group and - M28 (the 28th group of volunteers to be sent to Moldova) a designation that will forever be part of your Peace Corps identity.

The Crowne Plaza in Philadelphia was the staging site for volunteers heading for Moldova, and 5 or 6 other post around the world.  Moldova has four programs so we met volunteers who would be English Teachers, Health Teachers, Community and Organizational volunteers and a few more like us who would be doing Small and Medium Enterprise Development.


Those of us coming from the west coast had to arrive on Sunday, in order to be there for the morning meetings on Monday.  Some folks came in early to see Philadelphia or just because they wanted a more relaxing pace to the beginning of this adventure.  A few of us had connected on the Facebook page for our group and met for dinner in the hotel restaurant that evening.  The food wasn’t bad and by chance we were able to meet the two other married couples who were serving in Moldova with us, as well as half a dozen other volunteers who would be serving alone.  It was a chance to compare notes and just talk about expectations and trepidations, hopes and fears, and to begin to understand that we all had more in common than we might have thought.

Monday morning started off with making sure we had completed all the paperwork that needed to be done before we left.  Insurance forms and beneficiary designation, personal effects insurance if you wanted it, signing off on anything else that had not been completed and sent in electronically in advance.  Mike and I had done all of our forms meticulously on line and had scanned and emailed every possible form in advance so we had very little to do and were sent into the staging conference room for Moldova.

One of the things we had received by email was a schedule that was daunting to say the least.  Knowing that we would be leaving the Crown Plaza Tuesday morning for a transit to JFK airport by bus – then enduring hours in the JFK airport as we were all processed and situated for the flight with all of our luggage, then flying overnight to Munich, connecting there to another flight to get to Chisinau, this was the schedule of events upon arrival in Moldova beginning on Wednesday:
PC MOLDOVA 2013
 M 28 PST ORIENTATION TRAINING AENDA
JUNE 5,  WEDNESDAY
M 28 GROUP ARRIVAL & HUB SITE
12:25 PM
M 28 PCTs Arrive in Moldova at Chisinau Airport. 
Meet PCTs,  PC Staff (CD, DPT, TM, SSC) and PCVs Mentors
1:30-2:00 PM
M 28 PCTs Arrive at the HUB SITE, PCTs, Mentors (Luggage Processing)
2:00-2:30 PM
Snack
2:30-3:00 PM
Welcome to PC Moldova, CD, PC Moldova Staff
3:00-3:20 PM
Safety Briefing, CD
3:20-3:50 PM
PCT Welcome Folder and Orientation Week Agenda, TM
4:00-5:00 PM
PCT Walk-Around Allowance, PC Cell Phones, PC Equipment, Luggage Processing, Mentors, AAs, PCTs
5:00 PM
Leave to PST Sites, PCTs, LTIs
JUNE 6 THURSDAY
HUB SITE

8:30-11:30 AM
Language Classes in the PST Site, LTIs
11:30-12:30 PM
Leave to Hub Site, PCTs, LTIs
12:30-1:30 PM
Lunch
1:30-2:00 PM
PST Overview. Trainee Assessment, TM, DPT
2:10-3:40 PM
PC  Approach to Development, DPT
3:50-5:00 PM
ADMIN Session
JUNE 7, FRIDAY
HUB SITE

8:30-11:30 AM  
Language Classes in the PST Site, LTIs
11:30-12:30 PM
Leave to Hub Site, PCTs, LTIs
12:30-1:30 PM
Lunch
1:30-3:00 PM
Accomplishing the PCs’ First Goal, DPT
3:10-5:10 PM
TECH Intro. Get to Know You Discussions, PMs
JUNE 8, SATURDAY
PST SITE
                                                                           8:30-12:30 PM  
Language Classes in the PST Site, LTIs

SDAs

I guess there is no time for jet lag!  So arriving in our new country with absolutely no language skill, we would be heading to a host family the very first night in country.  What a frightening thought.

We spent all day in the conference room being briefed on the Peace Corps, Safety and Security issues, some Moldovan post specific information and doing a little “team building”.  They actually did an activity to show us that we could communicate fairly effectively without saying a word.  I think that was supposed to make us feel better about heading to Moldova with no language skill…..not sure it worked but it was kind of fun.

Next thing we knew, Tuesday we were all on board the buses and headed for JFK, at 9 in the morning for a 5pm flight!   We were asked to arrive in Chisinau dressed in “business casual” some volunteers wore sweats for the first part of the trip and then changed clothes in the airport in Munich.  That seemed like a lot of work to us for we just chose comfy clothes that would pass as business casual and hoped for the best.  The Munich connection was on time and with little fuss we were on the final leg to Chisinau.


Arriving at the airport we could see signs and banners welcoming us and as we disembarked we could hear the volunteers that had come to greet us screaming and hollering their welcome.  Exhausted after many hours of travel with little sleep we managed to identify our luggage – get through Passport control and land on the sidewalk in front of the airport. 

Volunteers who were already here (M27s) were assigned to help and they managed to get all of the luggage into a truck and all of us into a bus.  The airport in Chisinau is about 20 minutes from the city center so it was not long before were deposited at ASEM (The University of Economics) which we found would be our training center for the days that we would all be together in Chisinau.

After some Moldovan pizza and a little cultural welcome ceremony we were herded into a conference room for some training, which we do not remember at all.  We were then hustled into our various groups SED, COD, EE, HE and given phones, fire extinguishers and filtered water bottles, to take to our sites along with the 100 pounds of luggage we were each already toting.  Out to the parking lot – into minivans, 5 or 6 volunteers to a van since we all had  so much luggage, and off to be deposited with our host families in the neighboring villages.


Exhaustion and anxiety were the key words for the arrival in our new home.  

Tuesday, April 22, 2014

Back in the USA....briefly.

Culture shock!  We are back in the USA for the first time in over a year.   Of course our plans for airport pick up changed at the last minute but our wonderful friends Ken and Herme came to the rescue and met us at the airport in Phoenix.  They hauled us and our luggage out to my brother Ed’s house – since we had sold our house before we left he had graciously offered to put us up for the duration.  Thank heaven for little brothers and fabulous friends!


While still in Spain we knew we would need to acquire a good amount of stuff for our sojourn in the Peace Corps.  We had hit Amazon.com and ordered a bunch of items to be delivered to the house before we arrived, one of them being a prepaid phone and the minutes to use while we were in the US since neither our Spanish nor our Uruguayan phones would work in the US.  Imagine our surprise when only a couple of items had shown up, and the phone was not one of them.   I had checked the web site before leaving Spain and it had shown that all the items had already been delivered, hmm….
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Somehow, part of the way through the orders, the address in our Amazon account had reverted to our old home address.  The house we had sold over a year ago.  I called the realtor and fortunately Melissa Schwartz was on the ball as usual and was able to give me an email address for the new owners.  It turns out they had a whole stack of boxes sitting in their garage waiting for us.  Everything was there including the phone, so now we could actually communicate with our friends and family.

While we were in Spain we had set our dental appointments (thanks Susan) for the first couple of days after we got back.  Mike found out that the tooth that had abscessed in Spain really needed to come out before he could get his dental stuff signed off.  My appointment with Dr. Michael Thompson at Kierland Dental Center was the best dental appointment I have ever had.  He took care of everything including the lengthy forms for the Peace Corps while I was there and I left with the hard copies and a promise to send the electronic X-rays and report later the same day.  Very impressive, when I next signed into my email they were all there!

Mike was a different story, he was unhappy with the way his dentist, a former golf buddy, had handled his appointment and then when they decided that an extraction was necessary  he sent Mike to someone else who could not even get him in until the following week.  Quick phone call back to Dr. Thompson and we had the extraction done in two days and the follow up appointment the following Monday with all paperwork completed and signed off.  If you ever need a great dentist in the Phoenix/Scottsdale area, they just don’t get any better than Dr. Thompson.
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Our appointments at Patient's Choice Labs were a great surprise as well. TB and HIV tests handled professionally and quickly, by the time we went back for the TB skin test to be checked the other results were already in our email and TB results followed just as quickly and painlessly.

With the last of the paperwork finally off to the Peace Corps we were able to relax and enjoy visiting with family and friends for the remainder of our short time in Arizona.  My brother’s home became the BBQ haven and he is a marvelous cook so every meal was a delight.  Fortunately our friends were mindful of how little time we had and they got together in groups to see us.  Mike and I actually got to play a round of golf with the friends who are baby-sitting our clubs, Guy and DeeDee and Mike shot 78 without having touched a club in over a year, I lost count at some point so my score will go without saying.


Our oldest daughter Jasel had managed her work schedule so she could spend some “mom” time with me and I cherished every moment of it.  She also played chauffeur for us and drove us all over the valley in the first few days so we could manage all our appointments.  My sister came up from Tucson and spent time with us and also played chauffeur so I could get all the last minute shopping done.

One of our great friends Lloyd was leaving town just a few days after we got there and offered us the loan of his car for the rest of our stay. We dropped him at the airport and suddenly found ourselves driving a vehicle again, for the first time in over a year.  I can tell you, that is one thing I had not missed!

Mike managed another round or two of golf with friends and I spent his golf course time drinking champagne and eating great food with MaryBeth, Robin and Royce around the pool or spending time with Jasel.  What a life!   We had dinner with Herme and Ken so we could actually enjoy their company (when they picked us up we were so exhausted that we were useless) and catch up on their lives.

Two weeks flew by and we found ourselves saying our good-byes again, this time knowing that in all probability we would not be back to the states for over two years.  Many of our friends still think we are absolutely nuts, and maybe we are, but at least we are never bored! 

Our staging for the Peace Corps was set in Philadelphia,  a non-stop flight on Sunday afternoon had us at the Crowne Plaza in plenty of time to meet a few of our fellow volunteers and to get a good night’s sleep before we started our orientation the following day.


Thursday, April 17, 2014

Saying Good-bye to Granada...

The time had come.  It was mid-May and we were catching a flight back to Arizona.  First we tried to say goodbye to all of our friends.  We spent a week trying to see everybody which was almost impossible, and then spent our last morning and early afternoon with Kellie, Brit, Nando, Paloma, Adrian, Daniela and Jose at Puerta de las Pesas.  Where else?


When the time came to say our final goodbyes (we had no idea how long it would be until we’d see them again) it was much harder than any of us had imagined.  Hugs all around and we found ourselves in tears as we left this wonderful family who had helped us with the culture, history, and yes, the language of Spain and Granada. 
They had been such a large part of our lives for the past year.  Even a few of the “hippies” Juan and Oscar waved and called “adios” as we returned to our apartment for the last time.

We had no idea what our future in the Peace Corps would bring and our Spanish friends struggled to understand, as they put it, “our desire to help” other people. 
Suddenly we had loaded our bags into Jose’s car and were on the way to the bus station.  A final hug from Jose and our magical year free of responsibilities was over.

The five hour bus ride passed in silence as we both were lost in our thoughts.  It was time to pamper ourselves so we caught a cab from the bus station in Madrid to our hotel near the airport.  We stayed at the HoteltaCH and it was perfect.  It had a small café/bar on the ground floor, a nicely equipped workout room and our room was clean and comfortable.  A good business hotel yet, it was just what we needed as we nursed our drinks and talked about what we were about to do.


A good night’s rest and a short hotel shuttle ride to the airport and we were checking in for our flight to Phoenix via Dulles in Washington D.C.  It was a little hard to imagine that we had left our youngest daughter in Granada, for a second time. 
After the usual airport hassles (less in Madrid than other places) we settled into our seats for the long journey back to Phoenix.  For once, our travel plans had gone off without a hitch.

Saturday, April 12, 2014

Peace Corps Medical ,,,,,while in Spain.

Well, the big decision had been made in Uruguay.  We going to go to Moldova and serve in the Peace Corps.  Then we get the bad news.  It has been just over one year since we cleared the medical screening process and we need to update our information.  This includes a follow up visit with our primary care physician, urine and blood analysis, HIV and tuberculosis tests (again since we have been in Uruguay) and a completely new dental workup.  Great!

This may sound simple but not so for us.  We were living in Uruguay when we found out, our health insurance was in Spain and they want all of this information in just a few weeks.  We have had no plans to return to the U.S. except for a couple of weeks prior to the Peace Corps staging process and are facing an expensive flight and uncovered medical expenses because it has taken the Peace Corps so long to place us.

We have to admit that the office of medical services worked with us really well.  They understood our challenges and helped us as we developed solutions.  What was our solution?  Return to Spain for 10 weeks, get our medical information mostly updated and see our daughter and our friends in Spain before returning to the U.S. for a whirlwind couple of weeks to finish our medical and dental updates, see some friends in Arizona and get ready to go to Moldova for two years.

We found an English speaking physician in our insurance network in Granada and after a little bit of discussion, she understood that we needed a very basic physical examination which she performed.  She ordered the labwork (gave us a prescription basically) and agreed to provide the documentation necessary for the Peace Corps.  In fact she worked with us to translate the documents from Spanish.

We went to the lab and had a very humorous few moments as we learned a new word in Spanish; orina.  Expecting to only get blood drawn we were absolutely flummoxed when this came up and of course, as is normal in Spain, there was no English speakers in site to assist us.  And we thought our Spanish was pretty good.

As you can probably guess by now, the work means urine and apparently our doctor had ordered a urinalysis as well.  This was Thursday and we were told the results would be available the following Monday.  Wonderful. 

Next step, acquire the “certificate of good health” reporting form that the doctor needs.  These can be obtained at the nearest “estanco” or tobacco store; go figure.  Two weeks and four euros poorer we returned to the doctor’s office where she wrote up our results (lab-work delivered by us of course), gave us a little common sense advice (stay hydrated, drink in moderation, etc.) and sent us on our way.  The doctor visits and the lab work cost us a total of 24 euro for the copays.  You just can’t beat that.

We decided that the dental workup requirements were complicated enough that we would never be able to explain it to a Spanish dentist so we would wait until we returned to the States to get that done.  Besides, we didn’t have dental coverage in Spain either.

Sure enough, two weeks before we returned to the States Mike developed an abscess around a tooth he had been fighting for years.  After two days of increasing swelling and pain while unsuccessfully trying to catch one of the dentists in the Albaycin in their offices we went to a local pharmacy and explained the problem.  After a few questions the pharmacist gave Mike some anti-inflammatories, post-inflammation pain relievers and put him on a course of antibiotics.  This would all have to have been done prior to the dentist working on the tooth anyway. 

What an incredibly efficient way for health care to work!  The tooth improved of course and we decided to wait until we returned to the States to have the tooth removed as a part of our dental workup update.  The office of medical services understood and approved the fact that our dental work would be submitted less than two weeks before we would arrive in Philadelphia for staging.


The final pieces we’d have to put together would be the HIV and tuberculosis tests that had to be done in the U.S.  We found a company People’s Choice Labs in Phoenix that allowed you to order your own lab work for very reasonable prices, were able to schedule appointments for the TB test and HIV blood draw right after we returned and were assured results within just a few days.  The nurse in charge of our files was wonderful (Thank you Nancy!) as we finally ground to the end of what was, for us, a long, long (almost 2 years) application process.

Monday, April 7, 2014

Birthdays, weddings and Fiesta de las Cruces.

By the end of April, after several weeks of abnormally cold and wet weather we were finally treated to some typically southern Spanish spring weather.  The people began to fill the streets and the plazas again.  Tourists, bless ‘em, began to crowd the Albaycin once again.  The weather was fabulous by the time another Spanish holiday, Fiesta de las Cruces, came around in early May. 


The Fiesta de las Cruces is really an interesting holiday.  This holiday celebrates the emperor Constantin’s vision of the cross on the eve of a very important battle and some subsequent events involving his mother and his conversion.  That’s the very short version. 
This festival occurs in early May and is celebrated in Spain and Latin America.  The city of Granada is known for having one of the most beautiful celebrations of this holiday.

Every neighborhood that chooses to do so, decorates a square or plaza with traditional items and typically rural settings.  Each square or plaza features a cross of course, covered with red or white flowers.  Each neighborhood’s display is unique and all are stunningly beautiful. 
The holiday begins on a Friday (although set-up for some begins on Thursday) and is over by Sunday.  The weekend is one of incredible celebration as the plazas and squares are filled with people from all over Spain and Europe drinking and dancing as music is played, many times by live performers.
The children all get dressed up in traditional Spanish dress clothes, with the little girls all looking like Flamenco dancers,
and the little little boys all looking like Antonio Banderas in Zorro.  Many of the adults dress up as well but the kids are absolutely precious.
Noella was of course one of the cutest, in our opinion!

We used Las Cruces as a backdrop for our own celebration. Kellie turned 23 while we were there and Brittani would turn the same age the following month.  Of course a special cake was ordered from  Pasteles and we enjoyed fabulous food, drinks and great company at Puerta de las Pesas.


Another very special event occurred that was memorable and unique.  Brittani’s parents, Mitch and Deb were celebrating their 25th wedding anniversary with a trip to Europe, the first for Deb.  They came to Granada to enjoy some of their very special time with Brittani, unbeknownst to Deb, her very romantic husband had been working out the details of a special renewal of their vows while in Spain.  With Fernando’s help we were able to reserve a time with the priest in the Monastery of Santa Isabella Real (a small and beautiful chapel in the monastery has a public mass twice a week).  It was built on the site of an ancient mosque within the original Palace complex in the Albaicyn.  This monastery has changed over the years and now houses and order of cloistered nuns.  They have no public contact and during the public mass twice a week they sit behind a wooden screen.  They provide the music for the mass by singing beautiful hymns.


On the evening that had been arranged we all went to the church – having explained that since it is so rarely open to the public we would all go down to see it right before the scheduled mass.  When we arrived in front of the church Mitch went down on one knee and asked Deb to marry him all over again, it was very touching and when she discovered that he had arranged for them to do it right then, in this beautiful church she was overcome.  Allie had come along with us to translate for the priest, no one spoke any English, but the service was simple and beautiful and created a very special set of memories that their family will cherish forever. 
It left quite a mark in all of our hearts as well!
A fabulous dinner had been ordered by Brittani and we were all treated to exceptional Spanish food and of course some lovely Cava (Spanish version of Champagne) at the restaurant and then the following day the folks left to head back to the states.

Kellie and Brittani still had until the end of June of their teaching contracts so they would be staying a while after all the rest of us had gone ahead.  Time was getting very short for us, 10 weeks had seemed like a long time when we planned it but it had flown!  Finally, the weather was beautiful, Spain was beautiful and we were going to be leaving in a few short days.

Thursday, April 3, 2014

Semana Santa in Granada.

Okay, so it was pouring rain when we arrived in Madrid….. 

Okay, so it was raining off and on when we arrived in Granada the following afternoon, but…….

Two weeks later it is still raining!  This is now causing a problem.  We thought we were being so smart by catching Carnaval in Montevideo and arriving in Spain in time for Semana Santa.  Well, we did okay for Carnaval…….

Around the city of Granada there are more than forty churches that organize a procession with fabulously beautiful and meticulously decorated floats at specific times during Semana Santa.  These processions move very slowly along their routes, generally traveling from the church to the cathedral and back to the church.  These processions can take as little time as 4 hours and, in the case of the gitano procession, as many as 14 hours.

The processions feature penitents in color coordinated robes with conical, face covering hats.  Each procession has an accompanying band which is preceded by women dressed and veiled in black.  The women in black are preceded by the penitents and the floats. 
There are generally two floats, one with a story from the life of Jesus and the second, and seemingly most important, is the Virgin.  The floats are large, heavy and hand carried by 20 or 30 strong young men; thus the very slow pace with many stops.

It is highly preferable that these floats do not get wet!  Some of the sculptures date from the 17th century.

We were unlucky in 2013.  The rain during Semana Santa only allowed 7 or 8 of the scheduled 40+ processions to take place and there was much weeping and crying by the women of the churches whose processions would have to wait for another year.  Some of the floats had not been out for several years due to bad weather.  Fortunately, we did manage to see and photograph several of the processions that did take place.

So we spent our time with family and friends knowing we would not see them for quite some time.  Carlos was the first to surprise us by showing up at Puertas de las Pesas the second or third day after our arrival.  Riki and Mabel, from our Spanish classes almost a year previous, were back in town.  We made a new friend, Anita, and were able to get to know Sean and Grace a little better.  We spent some quality time with Tony and John (mostly John) at Hannigans listening to some oldies but goodies.
 
For the most part, we simply enjoyed being with our friends Tony, Chessa, Rory, Eva, Andrew, Allie,
Miles, Sue, Antonio sin gafas, Antonio sin pelo, Miguel, Aurora, Rafa, Bea, Ash, Donna, Dylan, Richard, Nicole, Francisco, Ray, Hassan, Manuel and Manuel, Juan, Gordi and Oscar and many others.  Okay, so Gordi’s a dog but we were going to miss him too.

Most importantly, we had ten weeks with our family, actual, adoptive and Spanish; Kellie, Brit, Fernando, Paloma, Jose, Mai, Alvaro, Adrian, Danielle, Noella and the baby, Diego.

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Back in Granada, Spain.

Thirty hours of flying connecting and flying some more and we are once again in Spain.  It’s raining in Madrid of course and we bypassed the taxi stand preferring to catch the free hotel van. 

Why is it always raining when we arrive in Spain?

We had charged our Spanish cell phone battery prior to leaving Montevideo and had visited our carrier’s website to add a little money to our account.  Inexplicably our phone did not have a charge by the time we reached Madrid and we couldn’t call the hotel to find out what time to expect the van.  After a 40 minute wait with cars and buses splashing water on us and on our luggage we returned to the taxi stand to acquire transportation to our hotel.  The taxi driver could not find the Holiday Inn Crowne Plaza  Madrid Airport and 30 euros later we staggered into the lobby of our hotel.  At this point all we wanted was a shower and to collapse into bed.

Too tired to sleep after showering we moved to the hotel’s cafeteria where we had a couple drinks and a warmed up pizza.  After watching an entire futbol game we finally retired to bed where we slept like rocks.  We had good intentions of rising around 5 in the morning and catching a workout in the hotel gym but were so tired that we slept until 7.

At 7 we quickly rose and checked our email on the hotel WIFI finding a disturbing message that the apartment we had so carefully and frustratingly arranged would not be available and the landlords intended to put us into a different apartment in a completely different part of the city.  This, of course, was absolutely unacceptable  because to us location is everything, but since it was early in the morning we could not do anything about it prior to boarding our bus to Granada. 

We caught a taxi to the bus station in time to board our “Supra” bus to Granada.  The Supra costs a little more but provides snacks, drinks and free WIFI which we fully intended to use.  There were only 7 people on the bus and the seats were very comfortable but, as was becoming normal for us, the WIFI was not strong enough to use email.  This became more of a problem because while we had recharged our phone, the minutes we had purchased had not been downloaded to our phone (or however that works).  Ultimately we determined that we had to have the phone turned on, while we were in Spain, to get our purchased minutes credited to our phone.  Oy!

So now, in spite of all our planning, we were arriving in Granada, in the pouring rain, needing to catch a taxi but without a destination.  We couldn’t even call our friends to ensure that they would be home! 

Not to worry; our friends were home when we called them from a pay phone at the bus station in Granada and they had already worked out a better plan with our landlord.  We were to be put in a different apartment in the same building as the one we had rented, the catch was that we would have to move in about 3 weeks to the actual apartment we had expected to be in from the beginning.  Fine, we could deal with that.  
We parked our luggage in our friend’s apartment and walked to Plaza Larga and surprised our very dear friends at Puerta de las Pesas.  The surprise was everything we had worked so hard to create, we were so happy to be back!  Later that afternoon we met our landlord  and got settled   We found ourselves feeling like we were at home in Granada.

It was Allie's birthday and she had managed to keep our surprise arrival from our daughter and had engineered a meeting by inviting, well insisting, that Kellie come up to Plaza Larga for a drink to celebrate with her after work.  We waited out of sight with our Spanish friends inside Puerta de las Pesas and they watched for Kellie to come by, she had to pass us to get to the bar where she was to meet Allie.  When she passed by Fernando called out to have her come in for a moment and when she did he opened the door and there we were!
It was a very touching moment for us because as soon as she saw us the tears started welling up in here eyes.  We will never be able to adequately express how much it meant to us to share time with our daughter and her friend Brittani in this new place that had begun to feel so much like home to us.  We only wished that our older daughter Jasel could have been there as well.


Kellie is not nearly as good at keeping secrets as Allie had been so as soon as she saw Brittani the next day we got a welcome back text and then were able to catch up with her too.  What a fabulous welcome back to Spain experience.

Thank you Allie and Andrew for helping us make the arrangements and for keeping secret our return to Granada!